| Posted on September 4, 2009 at 8:08 PM |
It's time to pluck immature peaches from my fruit-laden tree. However, I don't have a peach tree to thin.
What I have are numerous projects and expectations, plus a bushel basket of peachy ideas to implement, suggestions in my journal to fulfill, paper stacks of lovely intentions, business options to explore, and a meowing cat begging to be brushed, every morning.
In August when I visited my cousin's backyard garden, she placed in my hands a gift of two perfect peaches and placed in my heart a lesson in balance.
"At a certain point, my peaches stopped growing," said Carol. "They were miniature and green, though plentiful. So I called a professional and asked, 'Is this right?'"
"Remove half the fruit," I was told, "so those remaining will mature."
"Picking 50% of my young produce felt brutal," Carol admitted. "But later, I reaped a tree full of large, delicious fruit. Without thinning the excess, I'd have grown under-developed, small, inedible peaches."
My ears picked up on the peachy preachment Carol didn't realize she delivered. Too many activities, ongoing or potential, will weight my life, weaken the branches of my outreach, and prevent the maturity of all the fruit.
Over-burdened limbs can't support the growing weight of too much fruit or supply sufficient nutrients to an overly large crop. The load will stunt development and none will reach their pink and yellow, firm and juicy ripeness.
I got it. My branches were heavy. I needed to thin out some false hopes, unrealistic goals, and a few premature dreams.
Now the hard part. What activities do I cast aside? It's all fruit!
What peaches should I doom? What great idea will I ignore and let someone with more time, better skills, greater passion, or special calling, nurture and bring to fruition?
You may be wondering the same thing about yourself.
I'm thoughtfully examining my lists and will pluck and toss a lot of plans and possibilities.
Here are a few questions to help us decide which peaches to pluck.
1) Is the activity or commitment timely?
2) Will it employ your strongest talents?
3) Is it a constant stressor?
4) Can it wait?
5) Are its benefits worth the effort?
6) Is enthusiasm sufficient to sustain you until it's finished?
If you're yet uncertain about what fruit to pluck, you can be certain of what to leave on the tree.
Three things to keep in place always are self-care (exercise and nutrition), family relationships (care and fun), and daily fellowship with God (prayer and scripture). These peaches gotta stay. Oh, and you better brush the cat!
Please leave me a comment. Tell me about your orchard.
"The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life." Proverbs 11:30 NIV
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Laura Frantz says...
Wonderful and deep, Niki. This has such scriptural implications, too. It takes courage (and prayer) to cut away the dross from our lives but with His help it can be done. I needed your timely reminder today!



Sharon says...
Oh Niki!! I LOVE it! Punchy, fun, brilliant... and just exactly the challenge I needed this morning as I flounder amidst "opportunities," paper piles of good intentions, and other potential fruit. I am pondering your words as they have ministered to my heart. THANK YOU!!

Penny Carlevato says...
That was such a gem. I needed to read that and thank you for your "fruitful" Hi Penny! Glad to have you as a site member. I hope hyour friend and I can connect. I'm glad you sent her my info. I think she lives nearby, if I correctly recall our conversation in Denver.
blog. Thinking of you as you prepare for your booksigning on Sat. Wish I could come!!







